Thursday, November 28, 2019

These are the biggest (and weirdest) dating and relationship red flags

These are the biggest (and weirdest) dating and relationship red flagsThese are the biggest (and weirdest) dating and relationship red flagsThe road to romance is fraught with tension, with each side hoping they dont push each others buttons.BodyLogic MD surveyed 1,000 people about their biggest warnings in a new relationship, which antics are fruchtwein likely to cause resentments in a marriage, and even the best ways to find their soul mate.Follow Ladders on FlipboardFollow Ladders magazines on Flipboard covering Happiness, Productivity, Job Satisfaction, Neuroscience, and moreDating pet peeves vary widely between generations, it turns out. For Baby Boomers, its a partner who doesnt keep their word. For Generation X, its having a partner who cant commit. Millennials cant stand a partner who isnt emotionally available, and Gen Z cant tolerate a partner who wont tolerate texts.Check out the graphic for the early-stage red flags, broken down by men and women. They range from overshari ng on social media to being controlling to not texting when out/busy and the supremely annoying giving advice instead of comfort.Once you get past dating, you may find yourself in a relationship, and after that, possibly married. This leads to a whole new tischset of problems as couples try to adjust. Newly married couples found they did a number of things wrong in the eyes of their partner once they settled in together. Here are their top 10 crimesSqueezing the toothpaste tube 85%Folding laundry 72%Showering 71%Taking out the trash68%Dishes 65%Toilet paper roll orientation 59%Finding a parking spot 56%Expressing emotions 42%Cooking 36%Giving advice/problem solving 31%In fact, 77% of married couples said that their first year of marriage was complicated because of differences in how household chores were done. The whole list of indignities, which could be printed out and taken to a couples therapist, is below.But theres good news Any resentment in the marriage boils down to lack of communication, as 87% of women and 77% of men responded. So the problem, as they say, is easily fixable.You might also enjoyNew neuroscience reveals 4 rituals that will make you happyStrangers know your social class in the first seven words you say, study finds10 lessons from Benjamin Franklins daily schedule that will double your productivityThe worst mistakes you can make in an interview, according to 12 CEOs10 habits of mentally strong people

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